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| Photos credit to www.rotikaya.com |
I have never been a fan of these duo. I got to know them because of the constant drama at Suria Channel and the frequent malaysian magazine that dear momma pushes in my face. All I can say, some people just got it lucky to be sponsored for the event of their life. Us here, are cringing like mad every moment to save money. hahahahaha....Lucky duo!!
Anyhoo, got few shots of their Majlis Berinai outfit from the ever famous malaysian website that features celebrities happenings, www.rotikaya.com. Here are some few shots:
And here are some of the few shots of the power couple during their Nikah session and their reception photos. Photos credited to another awesome possum malaysia's celebrities website www.beautifulnara.com:
I DEFINITELY LOVE the feel of the photos hokay?!! And of cos I would be using it as a reference and tell it to our ever favourite photographer Syarfique from Bliss Photocinema....habes la kau Syarfique oiii!! Hahahhahaha...and not to mention member being one cool chill kinda brudder, I foresee he will just layan kan my ridiculous inspiration. Cos, he and Naz did an AMAZING job with our pre-wedding pictures I tell ya..and I will be uploading it soon of cos!!
So, back to the topic of this Wedding of the Year...I guess that weddings nowadays are truly being waaaaay blown out of proportion. No offense to the celebrities or people who have spent millions or hundreds of thousands on their Big Day. Again it their money...I dont give a damn. But the fact that, weddings are not as normal as it used to be does really creates pressure for the Brides to Be tau tak?!! Especially Malaysian Weddings!! OH MY GAWDDDDDDD!!!!
It makes the wedding scene in singapore like a slapstick comedy hokay?!! It makes me even more sad when Momma buy all those magazines from JB and shove it to my face and I my jawdropped every second longer as I turn the page. Siak ahhh...mana korang dapat duit eh???
Ballroom sebesarnya tidak!! Pakaian sampai 5 figure sums...tsk tsk tsk!! Ini magazine bukan kasi inspiration...it gives me PERSPIRATION!!!!!
Oh well, some people had it good. But at the end of the day, I hold on to the fact that biar majlis tu simple dimple BUT it will last till Eternity. Asalkan, tak kahwin "koboi" and you got the blessings from your parents, itulah yang sewajib-wajibnya yer tuan tuan dan fuan fuan.
And of cos, as Brides to Be, I know there are so many mothaf***ing awesome things to buy and it will tempt you like crazy but ALWAYS hold on to the fact that just buy things that you can actually afford and need and DO NOT buy things using credit cards or loans hokay?!! DANGERRUUUUS!!
One thing for sure, me and Beau we DO NOT BELIEVE IN CREDIT CARDS. We believe in paying everything and anything in cash and if there are online payments to be made, Debit cards sure comes in handy. Therefore, we only spent on what we could afford and Beau definitely teaches me alot about savings and BELIEVE ME ladies, Alhamdullilah, so far in this marriage preparation, I have never felt that I really need to "Ikat Perot" or struggles to save like a mad cow. I have heard stories of BTB[s] who have to forgo their lunches everyday just to save on cash.
And speaking of things that I wanted, just the other day me and Beau were walking past PRADA store at ION Orchard and I stumble on a bag that I really really liked. But knowing the fact that I will need to forgo my 5K plus cash, I decided to give it a miss. Beau saw me looking at the LOVELY Limited Edition piece and asked me how much was it. And when I told him the price, I assumed he would just sprint to the nearest exit but NOPE, like a good boy he didnt. And, I really think that was because he was dutifully trained by Bonda [MIL] who is such an avid shopper on branded goods. Seriously, for a mom she is SUPER COOL.
So, we stepped out of the store and he keeps asking me about the bag and keep bombarding me with questions through out. And I am the kind of person who cant take too much questions, and the next thing I know I BURST INTO TEARS in the middle of that freaking Orchard Road. And I finally blurted out how much I LOVE ADORE SUKA MAHA CINTA with that bag. Being me, I have NEVER EVER asked for people anything. I am the sufferer in silence. Save up and buy on my own type. And of cos, I have never cried for anything that I wanted to buy before.
Anyhoooo, the next thing I know is that we have reached Orchard Central and Beau takes my hand and we U-TURN BACK to ION Orchard hokay people?!!! Seriously, I've no idea what he was up to and then when we reached ION,he told me to go the ladies and touch up. And I was like WTF??? U-turn just to go toilet???? So, when I came out we proceed to the very familiar area around PRADA and I was hyperventilating like mad laaaa.....
I guess u know what happens next....HE BOUGHT ME THE THAT DAMN FREAKING PRADA BAG which I CINTA LIKE MAD [lorrrrr]!!!!!!! Of cos u thought that I would be happy. One second I was and the next, I was like NO! NO! NO! it seriously makes me feel guilty cos he bought it with cold hard cash!! Literally, he withdraw the money dunno when and he pay it. I felt guilty as hell, I tell ya. It's not the first time I cried in front of him and usually I dont get anything except a pat on the head constantly.
And so, on the exterior I am one happy girl but on the other hand, I do make a note to myself not to cry if I EVER wanted anything again. Everyone knows that he "spoilt" me like a one pampered brat everytime.
Of cos, my conclusion to this PRADA fairytale of mine is that NOT everyone will be blessed to have a humongous wedding event like one anak Datuk but when I look closely, I feel so blessed that I have a future husband who works extremely hard and is so smart in saving his moola[s] that he doesnt need to get any sponsorship from whoever to get my Wedding Dreams comes true. And I think, I may include this thoughts in my wedding speech as well. I may not have the wedding of the year but I DO FEEL that I have scored the Perfect Man of a Lifetime.
Thank you my Love.
Till then,
Loved.
