The Proposal.


Alright...So many of you I assumed have read my previous post of how Beau proposed to me. I would say..its the most ridiculous way ever!!! If you have not read it, then I guessed it's here for all to know.

Honestly, I wrote the post in a moment of pissed! Hahahha...and now thinking back it was the coolest  and funniest proposal EVER. Who would ever forget such an EPIC story and truly going with the Momma to Pasar Geylang every sunday morning brings back sweet memories. Saper-saper yang nak pecahkan tu Geylang Serai tu punya Market, Gua Kasi pecah Lu punya rumah. Tu tempat EPIC eh!! And honestly, nobody forgets such a damn funny story.

And speaking of proposal, I have never been a fan of a guy going down one one knee and taking my hand and say "Will you Marry Me?" That is totally pure bollocks and I despise men who would go through that kind of length to show their love cos to me this species are just "Mat Kental Buah Laici" hokay?! Well, that's just my views because I am not a person who likes guys to be mushy and stuff and it's a big TURN OFF to me. They just look so bloody "Ken[s]" you know. 

And I realize now is the reason why Beau asked me THAT IMPORTANT question casually because I believe, we have been together for so long and we are so comfortable with each other that we always can talk casually about everything under the sun. 

And after so much thought, that is probably the reason why I picked Beau in the first place because he is the "NO NONSENSE SMART MAMAT" which I truly liked and who doesnt beat around the bush. Boleh kasi sama Lu one straight jack sentence nyer!!

On another note,as usual I forgot or I had delayed this post so long that I never blogged about the post-proposal stuff. So here goes.....

Right after Beau proposed to me at one of the famous Malay ethnic destination, Beau asked me to set a date to meet Pappa and Momma personally to talk about our marriage. I was so damn "kancheong" la siak!! If my heart can jumped out, it would have make a somersault kau tauu!! I was like...SHIT!!! Never in my life I had any guy SO WILLINGLY and SO COOL to meet my parents or in this case MY DAD without their balls shrinking into sizes like hershey kisses.

I am not kidding you...meeting my DAD could give someone a cardiac arrest and from then on I know Beau was really Serious about US and he was NOT AFRAID to ask for my hand in marriage by asking my parents first. So, we met in the faithful Sakunthala Restaurant happily eating curry fish head while I sweat my nuts off!! Then we proceed to Marina Square Macdonalds to have some desserts and talk about the TOPIC.

So, Beau finally asked Pappa and Momma for their blessings to make me his Wife. Papppa and Momma asked him questions and advice him on how to take care of their "Little spoilt brat" of cos. I was too damn "kancheong" at that moment because I was so scared Pappa would asked him a million and one questions which he did and AMAZINGLY this MAN OF MINE answered so bloody manly style and just keep smiling all the way. I was like....."WTF?" How can anyone be this cool? or maybe I watched too much drama about anak menantu kena drill. So, they set the date and the dowry amount.

At that point, I was feeling a bit smug. Hahahhahha...buat aper nak pakai wakil? Gua punya groom is one cool dude and settle it with the parents himself. So Man-ly...So Brave...I loike!!!!
After the whole discussion has finished, I finally sip a bit of my drink and was feeling so so HAPPY!!!!! The torturous moment is over and done with!!!! 

I am SO SO PROUD of my man who is so Brave and being such a Gentleman by asking for my hand in marriage through my parents first. That is what I like because it's Traditional and it is how I was brought up to believe in. I could never picture a Better Proposal than THIS!!! Because ultimately, I am still my parent's responsibility or "hak" and by doing this kind of action means that he respects my parents and meet them personally to get their blessings.

Not every man have the courage to do that hokay?!! Especially when facing my Dad.

Now, we zoom in to few months back. I was complaining to Beau about how my fingers is shrinking in size and I could no longer wear my Tiffany Engagement Ring without  slotting in a tiny piece of tissue in between...old skool ahhh tapi korang nak aku buat aper kan?? So, instead for my birthday, he bought for me a Tiffany Necklace with a pendant and he says that would be the ring's alternative. I thought it was going to end there but Nooooooooo....

I was just playing around with the Bestie[s] going around Town and trying on Luxury brand rings that I never thought I could ever afford even if I  compiled 20 lifetimes so-called. So since I cant afford, I just try on [lah], no harm done right. At least dapat rasa jugak cincin mahal kat jari cimot aku ni. It was just a Dream. I told Beau about it and he always knew I had this dream ring from a certain brand. When I told him last time, he was still in NS and I was still schooling and for the fact that I would nearly press my nose against the boutique display mirror would be enough to make me one happy girl.

So, one fine day Beau told me we would go to MBS andI gladly followed. Little did I know, it would be such a historic moment for me because he was  going into the direction of my DREAM RING BOUTIQUE!!!!!! [Which boutique...let me surprise you ladies after the whole wedding fiasco finished! Im a sucka for surprises!!!] Can you believe it?!!!!!! Just going through the doors when the doorman pull it for me is one AMAZING MOMENT!!! "Baru orang bukak-kan pintu, makes me have goosebumps hokay?" 

Then, I was greeted by the Senior Sales Manager somemore and she direct me into a Private Room and serves us tea. I was like "one pure minah jakun[lah]" and felt like Julia Roberts from Pretty Woman hokay?!! And then, the most AMAZING MOMENT ARRIVE!!!!! The Manager took out MY DREAM RING FROM MY FREAKING DREAM RING BOX LA SEY!!!!!

WAH LAO WEY!!!!! I was hyperventilating like Mad!!!! And then, Beau asked me to take out my phone and turn it into Video Mode and asked me to record while RIGHT THEN AND THERE, He "POP[s]" the question, "Will you Marry Me?" and of cos knowing my style he didnt go on one knee but sat dutifully on the Red velvety chair. 

My jaw dropped. I was super HAPPY. I was FREAKING ELATED. 
And, OF COS I SAID YES [LAH]!!!!!!!

How mother father ROMANTIC is that?!!!! Well to me it definitely is Romance on full blast! Because, I am the type of person who prefers to enjoy romantic moments with Beau without others looking or knowing and I like it to be Private that only the both of us could share  and have access to this Romantic Moment. 

That is just me and of cos other people may involved their "friends or relatives or kakak dia nyer laki nyer geng" BUT I am just so relieved, there is nothing of that sort and I could share this moment only with Beau.

And of cos, knowing that I'm such a private person, the engraving of words suits me tooo... and it says,  

"My one and Only. Love, ....."

Sweet. Simple. And I could never picture a much more PERFECT PROPOSAL than this because I am BLESSED to have such a Wonderful Husband to Be who does his best to fulfill even the most ridiculous Dreams of mine. 

I love you B. 

"Best Friends for Life
Just us Husband and Wife"



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